Where it comes from
In 1981 the BBC’s Horizon programme filmed a long, relaxed interview with Feynman, later shown in the United States on Nova. An edited transcript opens the collection The Pleasure of Finding Things Out (1999), and the story behind this quote is on pages 4 and 5.
The Feynmans spent summers in the Catskill Mountains, where the fathers came up from New York at weekends. Feynman’s father took him for walks in the woods. One Monday another boy pointed at a bird and asked what kind it was. Young Richard had no idea. “Your father doesn’t tell you anything,” the boy said.
“But it was the opposite,” Feynman says. His father had already made the point. Looking at a bird, he would give its name in one language after another, and then say: “you know in all the languages you want to know what the name of that bird is and when you’ve finished with all that, you’ll know absolutely nothing whatever about the bird. You only know about humans in different places and what they call the bird.” And then: “let’s look at the bird.”
The wagon and the ball
The quote itself comes a moment later, in a second story. Feynman noticed that a ball in his toy wagon rolled to the back when he pulled the wagon forward, and asked why. His father said that things that are moving tend to keep moving and things standing still tend to stay still: “This tendency is called inertia but nobody knows why it’s true.”
Feynman’s comment: “Now that’s a deep understanding — he doesn’t give me a name, he knew the difference between knowing the name of something and knowing something, which I learnt very early.”
Our take
Real. The popular version turns his spoken sentence around (“I learned very early the difference…”), but every key word is his, and so is the meaning. One thing to fix if you quote the bird line: those are his father’s words, as Feynman remembered them. Feynman told this story more than once, so you’ll find versions with slightly different wording. Cite the one you actually use.